If someone mentions their closeness, she often minimizes: "We are just friends".
It is not a desire to hide, but rather a way of preserving a bond that she sends fragile, even difficult to explain, even for herself.
She seems further away from home
When a significant part of her emotional energy is invested elsewhere, it happens that a form of distance settles in the couple.
She talks a little less, seems more distracted, as if absorbed in thoughts that she keeps to herself. This is not always voluntary: it is often an inner confusion between loyalty and the need to reconnect with oneself.
She feels an inner
tug This is probably the most revealing sign: she cares about her couple, but at the same time feels an emotional closeness elsewhere.
This mixture of attachment and questioning pushes her to reflect on her needs, her emotions and the quality of communication in her marriage.